To be honest, I had a few girlfriends who were messing with a 'married man'. Some of the ladies, knew from the 'git', and the rest, 'claimed', that had no clue the cheating dude was married. Believe it or don't, GOD even created a commandment, about this subject. Here's number seven, on our Father's HIT LIST: Thou shall not commit Adultery. Can't get any plainer than that!  Amen